Annals of online dating juggalo

) Some folks are very upset that you may be judging them (to which I say, HOW DARE YOU JUDGE ME FOR BEING JUDGMENTAL?! Like this OKCupid user, for example, who doesn’t think you should judge him for what he looks like or for what he’s done with his life: It's sad that people judge others on the way they look, or what they have accomplished in life thus far.I believe a person should look past all of that, and see what that person COULD do.Did you know even after the advent of all these dating websites and stuff with preprinted profile so you can know the person “better” the divorce rate in the US still climbed from 60% to 70%?

Because people who hate people who JUDGE also hate people who are FAKE.

Unlike the rest of humanity, I guess, who are basically like, “Fakers and phonies? ” But plenty of people feel the need to mention how they hate FAKERS and JUDGERS in their profiles – I suppose so that when FAKERS read said profile, they’ll think to themselves, “Wow, this person sounded so great, we like all the same music and have all the same hobbies and they are so totally cute, but crap, they say they hate FAKES and I am nothing if not totally FAKE so I guess I shouldn’t respond.” That works, right?

What is this, some sort of Superficial Woman Utopia where women get to not respond to your advances when they aren’t into your self-described "sleazy" profile?

A a pre-arranged marriage where you actually see what a person looks like and what their interests are before agreeing to date them?

When considering the characteristics one wants in a life partner, “judgmental” does not top anyone’s list. At the same time, God gave us critical thinking skills for a reason – and while sniffing out every single fault isn’t a very good trait, some level of discernment is crucial in getting through life, and in selecting a mate (or just a date).

Internet Dating Land is especially fraught when it comes to the necessity of using superficial characteristics to determine potential compatibility.

they rather not take the time to actually talk to someone and get to know them.

instead they read a profile and just stop there with their judgment.

That person that you just stuck you're nose up at, could be the greatest political leader the world will never see, because (s)he didn't get that push from someone.

There's not a person in the world that cannot accomplish greatness.

that was the beauty of actual conversation, not this preprinted portfolios.

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