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To fight this problem, you must show that possible female Dom that you are serious by being constant in your communication and very patient.
According to the same female Dom friend, many male subs are scared to meet a prospective female Dom in a public place.
W/we are not talking about public play here, but many men are scared to admit that they are submissive. If the refuse to show up in a public place for the first meeting with You, how can You trust that man to do anything else in play! Because there are 4 men to every submissive woman in the lifestyle, it makes the search hard. There are always a lot more ads for male Doms looking for a female submissive then there are ads for female submissive doing a search for a Dom.
A searching male Dom will have to answer many many ads to receive a few replies. Male submissives make the majority of players in the BDSM lifestyle.
Not many female subs go alone to munches and play parties so, W/we are not saying that it is impossible to meet a female sub there but let's just say it is unlikely. There are not many female Doms looking for a male sub. Ads for sub male usually make the bulk of any ads service.
But gentlemen, if you don't meet that goddess in a public place for the first time, how can She trust you in play, when you don't want to do your part in the first meeting! If a switch, male or female gets with a non-switch partner, problems may arise when the switch wants to change sides. But again, a relationship between a switch and a non-switch is possible with good results...at U/us; Pierre is male Dom and Catharine(katy) is a female switch....:) Well ladies, in the BDSM lifestyle YOU are the one who decides on the partner whether Y/you're a Dom, a sub or a switch.
If Y/you put an ad, just be patient and replies will pour in. Remember, to be safe and find the proper partner that you need. By the way, you could be a very small woman or a BBW (Big and Beautiful Woman) there is a male looking for you, so YOU CAN choose.
And finally W/we don't talk about couples recruiting a slave or a plaything.
As always in dating, it is the L/ladies who pick and choose their P/partners and it is up to the males be T/they subs or doms to woo the L/ladies.
Now, let's see how a logical search for a P/partner goes; The goal of this search is to get a discussion going between the prospect partner and Y/you. But remember usually the L/ladies just have to wait for an answer to their ads while M/men have to do the initial contact.
From there, Y/you may have a chance to have something that will go further with this P/partner that has Y/your interest. To put an ad, it is usually free, but to be able to answer an ad, Y/you have to pay. Sometimes a L/lady will answer an ad but this is NOT the usual.
Take Y/your time and get to know this male P/partner that Y/you are interested in.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating