Reasons for not dating a single mother
Well, here are MY issues with them (This pertains to a woman who had a kid and never married, or divorced her husband because “She wasn’t happy”.
If she had a good marriage and he died, there might be wiggle room, but I still wouldn’t date her).1: She decided to have a kid without a husband. It also shows that she thinks of men as sperm donors and child support payers, NOT husbands & fathers. Get ready to pay up for a kid that you won’t get to be a real dad to. At the very least, a single mom shows lack of good judgement; otherwise she wouldn't have had sex with a man with whom she was unwilling to have children.
Perhaps a pump-n-dump or two are okay, but a relationship with a single mom is out of the question.
Add a minor child and it really complicates the issue. Millions of women in this country are single with no kids, and in every age range. Don’t waste your time with a woman that has PROVEN that she doesn’t want a husband for her and dad for her kids. That she will forget her utter contempt for husbands and fathers just for you? I run into single mothers once in a while, and when “I have a kid” is revealed, that’s the end of the conversation for me.
I will be polite but I will still walk off, because I don’t want anything to do with them. I don't know about this; this may be true, but I haven't seen many single, childless women my age or even close to it. I was a member of a couple of dating sites, and it seems as if the vast majority of women on there have kids.
This is why no man should "date" a single mother, MARRY that single mother, make your intentions with her known by courting her, or don’t even waste her time.
#Ebrahim Aseem If you’re not ready to faithfully commit to her, by all means, keep your substance-lacking side pieces & keep playing, but be honest with her.
It doesn’t mean anything is going on, it just means we have to behave like adults for the sake of a child.
If you’re in a long-term relationship with a single mom, you’re probably going to be introduced to the ex at some point.
Not everyone can handle or wants to handle dating a woman and accepting a child that isn’t theirs and that’s fine.
If you know you’re not ready to put in the extra effort that comes with dating a single mother, LEAVE HER ALONE!
Don’t act interested, get her pregnant, then leave her to raise a child alone. Let’s stop asking these women for pics, ask if she’s a WIFE.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating