Talking to parents about dating

For other situations it could be having different religions or beliefs or just something as simple as not feeling a strong connection as quickly as he expected.Now I’m not saying this is what happened but I think this scenario is more likely the cause than compliments or long emails.We’ve been conversing about different meaningful subjects, he asked me to talk about them, so it’s not as if I’m beating him over the head with my thoughts.

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I think one of three things is likely to happen if you send an email like this: For the first or second case, that would cause me to believe even more in my theory that he has started talking with someone else. This email isn’t about saving the relationship anymore, it’s simply about understanding what happened so you can learn for the future.

In these cases, I think writing an email requesting some closure is totally acceptable. There’s no recovery from an email like this (you’ll be asking questions like “Did I say anything wrong? If, on the other hand, he apologizes for being out of touch with you then there is still a chance but I would be cautious.

There is very little excuse for him not to have contacted you, even if only to tell you he was going to be very busy an communicate much.

We live in a world that makes communicating easy so, even if he does apologize, this whole situation should be counting as a strike against him in your mind and cause you to approach the possibility of a relationship with him with more caution.

It doesn’t mean he’s lost all interest in you…more likely he has found something that interests him just as much but is more accessible (closer in this case) to pursue.

Responding to This Situation All that being said, I think it’s very reasonable for you to reach out to him. That is, I would just come out and say “Why did you stop emailing me?!A more common possibility for why this is happening could be: The distance between the two of you is a concern for him.Again, distance is only one possible reason in the grand scheme of things.Your situation will likely vary but my thoughts are generally the same: some tiny detail on the difference in your last email is often not the reason.So all this talk about what I think isn’t the problem might make you wonder if I have any guesses on what IS the problem.” I would recommend a simple, pleasant email asking how he’s been.

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