What ethnicity should you be dating

As such, a second-generation Asian-American, with traditionally-minded parents, will probably have to shoulder a ton of pressure to marry an Asian.

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Actually, I’m not opposed to dating women of ethnicity. But, if I find more success dating non-Asians than Asians, who do you think I’m going to start actively pursuing? My race doesn’t want to date me, and I’ve learned to accept that.

I had a recent conversation with a female associate – a white woman – who admitted to me that the life partner she was in search of must be a white dude.

I find that odd, but then again I also am not sure if it’s an issue of self-hate so much as it’s a by-product of how and where a person is raised.

For example, black men who are raised around nothing but white people in a white school with white friends…I don’t expect them to necessarily be down with the Nubian Bourgetto Hood Princesses (NBHPs), and neither should you.

That’s why I decided to verify my suspicions by turning to the ultimate dating petri dish:

On Match, people can publicly list every ethnicity they’re willing to date. So, I enlisted the help of a programmer friend who wrote a piece of computer code to scour these profiles and collect the data. Not only did the code fail to collect the data, it proceeded to send “winks” on my behalf to 18 of these women.

But, these women aren’t even letting me in their pool in the first place.

I’m the little Chinese kid standing outside, rattling the gate in envy as I watch all the other kids slipping and sliding around and having a splashing grand time.

and know just how much starch to add to your laundry …

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